Vacation Reflection

As I sit here with my doggy, Queenie, and my son Aidan in his room back in our comfy home in Delco….I can’t help but look back and think of how much I smiled this past week.

Being on vacation when as A full time employee, mom, dogmom, wife, daughter etc at first was hard to fully relax. I still was worried if my son was having fun and if everything was going “to plan”

That was until the first night there…I went up to our roof top deck after we had had the longest first day of vacation ever. We didn’t get to the beach until 5 on Saturday…and weren’t able to do “everything” our son wanted to do when “he” wanted to do it ..so he was not a happy camper our first night

And as a Mama I was contemplating this whole Vacation…thinking this can not be how it’s going to go. We have been struggling with behavioral issues for a few months with our son and I just kept saying it has to get better …

So as I walked up to the Roof top Pool/deck at our hotel and got to see the beautiful sunset and watch people ride the rides along the boardwalk…I had an epiphany…

Aidan isn’t the only person on this Vacation!!!! Damnit I am too!! And I will not let a 6yr old temper tantrums ruin this for me.

Yea I am aware of how selfish that sounds…but sometimes as mother’s, as parents we need to be selfish…for our sanity. Because if we’re not…we are going bar shit crazy on your tooshie later on down the line. So let us be selfish!!!!

Sorry went on a little rant there. I was saying I had an epiphany on the roof. That I was going to enjoy my Vacation no matter what!!! And that is exactly what I was able to do

And don’t worry…Aidan had a Blast as well 🥰🥰⛱️🩴❤️🤍🏖️🤘🌊🤩

Leave a comment

Design a site like this with WordPress.com
Get started